How to Catch a Cheater:

When you suspect that your spouse is being unfaithful, it can eat away at you until you can’t think about anything else.

Suspicion isn’t enough for most to end a committed relationship, but no one wants to continue on with a partner they don’t trust. Trust is absolutely everything that holds a marriage together.

It’s important for your future and for your mental sanity that you find out the truth. People are often reluctant to immediately hire a private investigator when they suspect cheating but there could be signs in your relationship that you need to dig a little deeper.


Keep reading to learn how to catch a cheater and what you can do to learn the truth and finally put your suspicions behind you one way or another!

What’s Changed?

The biggest thing that tips people off to a cheating partner is usually a change in their behavior.

While men are more worried about and feel more betrayed by physical cheating (having sexual contact), women tend to be more upset by the emotional betrayal of infidelity. No matter which part of a partner straying is worrying you, you owe it to yourself to find out what is really happening.

They say hindsight is 20/20 but if you stop to put all the signs together, you’ll realize all the small things actually amount to some major differences.

Change in Appearance

If your mate is suddenly taking much better care of themselves and their appearance, you might be wondering why. There are some indicators that these changes could be due to having a new love interest.

When a spouse starts wearing new clothes that seem out of their comfort zone or they are suddenly more particular about hygiene before going out alone could be a red flag.

They may start watching what they eat or have a new interest in working out and getting into better physical shape.

Change in Behavior

It’s not just how good they look that changes when someone is being unfaithful. Often there are blatant signs of cheating in the changes in their personality or behavior.

They may start picking fights so they have a reason to leave or can ease their conscience regarding their infidelity. Some individuals will be more attentive and affectionate when they are home. Bringing gifts or flowers out of the blue. This too is often due to feeling guilty for cheating.

Working late or unexplained absences, long hours when they can’t be reached, and new excuses for trips out of town are telltale signs that something might be going on.

Change in Privacy Settings

If someone has something to hide they usually start taking steps to make sure they do. New passwords on their phone or computer, changes in privacy settings on social media or new profiles.

Check their phone for new contacts that don’t provide details about who they are for. You may also want to check the phone call history and text messages they’ve sent and received.

Most people who are cheating know how to hide things better than that though. There are apps that hide conversations and communication so be sure to check for unrecognizable apps that seem to be new.

Checking Up on Them

You don’t want to spend your life following them around and checking every move they make but if you still suspect you’re being cheated on, it’s in your best interest to find out the truth.

If you are still questioning your spouse’s fidelity, you may want to consider having them investigated so you can learn the truth.

The Experts Know How to Catch a Cheater

You don’t have to turn into Dick Tracey and do the leg work yourself. In fact, it can be almost impossible to know for sure how to catch a cheater when you’re the one being cheated on.

If you’re still worried about your relationship, connect with us. We’re experts in private investigation and we know how to catch a cheater so you can sleep better knowing the truth.